I’m so not ok with the way communication is made nowadays..
I don’t really know where to start but there is so much issue with the way it works now.
Text messages: how it became ok to correspond only through it.. how people get so coward and are only able to write instead of talking. It’s a fake perfection. You’re able to control everything you say cause you have time to think contrary on when you talk through phone or in real. But you can’t put emotion on text.. and you sometimes doesn’t say it all because texting is not fully communicating.Cause you know that if you were really that close you wouldn’t be talking through text only. So we’re now trying over and over to decrypt and understand what is more to be seen in a short text message.
Welcome to fake land and shallowness
I have friends, I mean people who acts as friend on my Facebook that I barely talk or barely acknowledge me in real life. It’s creepy it’s weird.
I remember the first time it happened: I thought I had made a connexion with someone through FB, the day after I went to school, saw him, walk toward him to say hi, and he sounded completely creeped out, like what I did is inappropriate.
Or like this girl that supposedly wanted to hang out, always canceled on me, never proposed a day to meet up and then added me as a friend on Fb.. (why?) comments on my walls but avoids eyes contact in school.
I tried to not take everything personally.. but sometimes it’s hard.
Chat (through fb or any other device that makes you talk w ur friends)
I tried not to be pissed off when somebody leaves in the middle of a discussion but once again that’s hard.
Or how people take ages to respond when you know that they seen it (to me the most annoying thing on FB “seen by … on *date* I would rather not know that to wonder why the hell are they not responding). I’m not talking about mail that you send on fb used as correspondence cause those are ok not to be answered quickly. but rather when you’re trying to make plans