I keep watching these TV show and keep realizing that there huge differences from what they experience to what I do
I thought it was a T.V thing you know. that they just make everything better. People are better, life more exciting. It got me that maybe it wasn’t about TV but maybe there was something else something more real. I was talking with a friend from the state and I was talking to him about that . About how everytime there was something going on my friends weren’t there (mostly) it said it ws absolutely crazy and that we won’t happen in the state.
1: Friends are around
SO I’m confused is it just me who has problem with friend or who just doesn’t have met great friends yet.
But what if it’s true, what if, People are actually more attentionate, have more ampathy etc..
And when I think about it that’s what I experienced , I met crazy beatiful “real” person in the State.
The thing is I also had lower expectations toward friends at that time and I was the foreigner, the girl who wasn’t going to stay around for long. So maybe it was just easier to give more to someone who was just passing through
and anyway I will just see how’s everything is going once I’ll be there.
2: Ex that becomes friend
And that point is not to doubt. Almost all my friends in the US are close to their exes.
I don’t know what to think about that. I’ve tried with some, but it’s always the same pattern :
if I dumped him I’m usually ok to be friend but usually he’s not
and if he dumped me I usually don,t want to have any contact with the person anymore